In a world brimming with division, burnout, and unprocessed emotions, the path to peace isn’t found in louder debates or better arguments—it begins within.
What if every conflict you’ve ever had—whether with a partner, a colleague, or yourself—wasn’t really about the other person, but about an unprocessed emotion rising to the surface?
This idea may feel radical, but it’s deeply liberating. Conflict, when seen differently, is not the enemy—it’s a messenger. A chance to heal, recalibrate, and reconnect.
From Music to Messages: Barbara's Journey of Spiritual Channeling
Barbara’s journey into the metaphysical began not with a textbook or a retreat, but with music.
“I started channeling through my music,” she recalls. What began as emotional expression soon evolved into spiritual messages. Over time, she realized her compositions carried more than melody—they carried insight. This channel eventually opened her up to something extraordinary: the voice of Albert Einstein himself.
Yes, that Einstein.
But Barbara isn’t interested in sensationalism—she’s committed to transformation. Through a process that blends spiritual channeling with grounded emotional practices, she developed what is now known as Conflict Revolution—a method to resolve outer conflict by healing our inner world.
What is Conflict Revolution
At its core, Conflict Revolution is the radical idea that all conflict—global or personal—stems from unprocessed emotional energy. And if we want to resolve these conflicts, we must start with ourselves.
Here's the foundational truth Barbara teaches:
“The root of conflict lies not in the other person, but in our own emotional reaction.”
She explains that when we feel triggered, it's not just the situation that's the issue—it's what the situation is activating inside of us. Often, this emotional energy is old, unconscious, and deeply ingrained. Left unchecked, it governs how we think, act, and relate.
Conflict Revolution teaches you to:
- Identify the emotional trigger (without judgment)
- Trace it back to its original source
- Dissect the emotion from the story attached to it
- Transmute the emotion through conscious processing
The result? Rapid personal transformation—and more compassionate relationships.
Channeling Einstein: The Science of Consciousness & Compassion
Barbara’s work is deeply spiritual but also surprisingly scientific. Through channeling, she received a unique interpretation of Einstein’s Unified Field Theory—an idea that consciousness, emotion, and energy are all part of a single, interconnected system.
According to Barbara, Einstein described compassion as the fifth fundamental force of the universe.
This revolutionary concept suggests that compassion is not just a virtue—it’s a power. One capable of influencing physical reality, reshaping relationships, and bridging the gap between intellect and intuition.
In Barbara’s words:
“Channeling Einstein changed everything. He helped me see how we can actually harness emotion as creative energy—if we’re willing to do the work.”
The Real Reason Peace Feels So Hard
Let’s be honest—most of us say we want peace. But when it comes to doing the deep inner work? That’s where resistance creeps in.
Barbara doesn’t sugarcoat it: “Resistance to inner work is natural. But it’s also what keeps us stuck in the same cycles.”
The ego clings to familiar patterns, even painful ones, because they feel safe. And the moment we step into emotional awareness, the ego panics. That’s why tools like Conflict Revolution are so vital—they help guide us through that resistance with clarity, grace, and grounded practice.
Intuition, Empirical Learning & Trusting Yourself
A key theme in this conversation is the power of intuition—but not in the mystical, inaccessible way you might expect.
Barbara teaches that intuition is actually empirical—something you learn to trust through experience. When you take a leap of faith and it leads to clarity, your nervous system starts to register that feeling as truth.
This creates a powerful feedback loop:
- You follow your intuition.
- It leads to alignment.
- You trust yourself more deeply.
- You make more empowered decisions.
It's not about perfection—it's about building faith through feedback.
The Human Dimensions of Healing
Barbara breaks human experience into three parts:
- Intellect: The logical mind
- Emotion: The energetic fuel of creation
- Intuition: The internal compass and creative blueprint
When these three are in conflict, we suffer.
When they are in alignment, we thrive.
That’s why her 12-week Conflict Revolution Challenge focuses on reconnecting these dimensions. Each week, participants explore emotional processing, conscious decision-making, and intuitive listening. The goal isn’t to become “perfectly peaceful”—it’s to become radically present and emotionally free.
Real-World Healing Requires Inner Work
Barbara’s teachings come at a time when the world desperately needs new models of peace. But she reminds us: it starts with the individual.
Her recent world tour was dedicated to spreading this message—that if we each take responsibility for our own inner conflicts, the ripple effect could change everything.
“Personal transformation is global transformation,” she says.
And it's not just theory—she’s seen it in real time. People resolving long-standing feuds, healing decades of trauma, and stepping into their power—not by changing their circumstances, but by changing how they respond to them.
Notable Quotes from the Episode
“Compassion isn’t just kindness—it’s a fundamental force of the universe.”
— Barbara With
— Barbara With
“You can’t fix the world by avoiding your feelings.”
— Marcie Walker
— Marcie Walker
Actionable Steps for Personal Peace
If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your power and start transforming your own energy, try these steps inspired by Barbara’s work:
1. Track Your Triggers
When something upsets you, pause and name the emotion. Is it anger, sadness, fear? Where do you feel it in your body?
2. Separate Story from Emotion
Try journaling about the situation—but focus only on the raw feeling. Avoid attaching a narrative. This helps you isolate and process the energy.
3. Practice Intuitive Listening
Take 5 quiet minutes each day to ask your inner self, “What do I need to know?” Write down what comes up—without editing or judging.
Actionable Steps for Personal Peace
- Barbara With’s books and world tour details at barbarawith.com
Final Thoughts
The journey to peace isn’t always comfortable—but it’s worth it. Through her work, Barbara With shows us that true change begins with radical self-responsibility, intuitive trust, and the courage to process our deepest emotions.
Whether you're navigating a personal challenge or yearning for a more compassionate world, this episode is your invitation to begin.
🎧 Listen to the full episode now on The Wild Sage Society podcast.
The Missing Piece: Why Clarity Alone Isn’t Enough
Many of us strive for clarity, believing that once we “figure things out,” everything else will fall into place. However, as Sharon emphasizes, clarity alone isn’t enough—alignment is the true key to unlocking momentum. Without alignment, even the most well-laid plans can feel forced and unsustainable.
She explains that misalignment often manifests as exhaustion, frustration, or a sense of emptiness, even after achieving what we thought we wanted. The solution? Understanding and integrating your personal strengths, values, and processing styles into your life and business strategies.
Notable Quote: “Clarity gives you focus, but alignment gives you momentum.” – Sharon Spann
Recognizing When You’re Forcing vs. Flowing
We’ve all been there—pushing so hard to make something happen that it starts to feel like an uphill battle. Sharon highlights the importance of recognizing when we are forcing an outcome versus when we are in a state of natural flow.
Forcing often feels like constant resistance, while flow feels like things are unfolding with ease and synchronicity. One way to shift into flow is to pause and ask yourself: Am I pushing this because I think I should, or because it genuinely aligns with me?
Actionable Step: The next time you feel like you’re forcing something, take a step back. Ask yourself, What would ease and flow look like in this situation? Releasing control can often open the door to greater opportunities.
Introducing the D.A.I.S.E. Framework
One of the most impactful parts of this episode is Sharon’s introduction of her D.A.I.S.E. Framework, a five-step process for achieving clarity and alignment:
- Discover – Identify your true strengths, values, and unique gifts.
- Align – Ensure that your goals, actions, and strategies are in sync with your authentic self.
- Ideate – Brainstorm possibilities without limitation, allowing creative solutions to emerge.
- Strategize – Develop a plan that is both practical and aligned with your values.
- Empower – Take action with confidence, knowing that your path is rooted in authenticity.
Sharon explains that this framework isn’t about rigid steps—it’s a fluid process that allows for evolution and refinement over time.
Notable Quote: “The best strategy that is misaligned is almost no strategy at all.” – Sharon Spann
Understanding Your Personal Processing Style
A fascinating insight Sharon shares is the idea that we all have different processing styles—visual, auditory, or kinesthetic. Understanding how you process information can significantly impact how you communicate, make decisions, and structure your workday.
For instance, a visual processor might benefit from vision boards and diagrams, while an auditory processor might retain information better through spoken conversations or voice memos. Kinesthetic processors, on the other hand, may need to physically engage with something to truly understand it.
Actionable Step: Reflect on how you best absorb and retain information. Experiment with different learning and planning techniques to find what works best for you.
Are You Stuck or Just on Pause?
One of the most eye-opening discussions in this episode is the distinction Sharon makes between being “stuck” and being “on pause.”
Being stuck implies a deeper resistance—perhaps an internal fear, misalignment, or a belief system that needs to be addressed. Being on pause, however, can simply mean that the timing isn’t right or that you need more information before moving forward.
Sharon encourages listeners to ask themselves: Am I truly stuck, or am I just waiting for the right moment.
Actionable Step: If you feel stagnant, write down your biggest hesitation. Is it fear, timing, or a lack of clarity? Identifying the root cause can help you determine your next move.
Practical Steps to Move Forward
Sharon provides practical, actionable steps for listeners to start integrating clarity and alignment into their lives:
- Self-Assessment Exercise: Identify an area in your life or business where you feel resistance. Is it due to a lack of clarity or misalignment?
- Pause Before Forcing: When you feel yourself pushing too hard, stop and ask: Am I forcing this? Consider what a more aligned approach might look like.
- Try the D.A.I.S.E. Framework: Walk through Discover, Align, Ideate, Strategize, and Empower to create a roadmap tailored to your personal strengths and values.
Final Thoughts
Sharon Spann’s insights serve as a powerful reminder that success isn’t just about setting goals—it’s about aligning those goals with who you truly are. Whether you’re a high achiever feeling unfulfilled or someone searching for the next step, this episode provides invaluable tools to help you shift from force to flow.
To dive deeper into Sharon’s work, explore her Clarity and Alignment Toolkit and download her Free Clarity and Alignment Worksheet at SharonSpann.com.
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